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Your Eyes Show Emotion!
Your eyes are essential to communication. They are the most expressive part of your face.
Try having an involved conversation with someone without looking at them. It’s impossible to communicate effectively without at least occasional eye contact. In a sales meeting, make sure to check out what’s going on with your customer’s eyes.
Are they dilated? Dilation is an involuntary response to light, you know that. But it’s also indicative of certain moods. Enlarged pupils indicate powerful emotions, including anger, suspicion, and deep thought. They also imply arousal, excitement, and interest.
The next time you look at an advertisement that features a female face, notice how wide her pupils are dilated. Usually, a graphic artist will air brush dilated pupils to make the model more attractive.
If your customer’s eyes dilate, you will experience an instinctual response; you might perceive that the client is angry or extremely interested. Before, you would have felt this way instantly, without knowing what triggered your reaction.
Here is a simple exercise to get you started. Before entering into a meeting, pick someone whom you will be with. As you begin to make small talk with them, choose a pleasant topic, something which is appealing to them. As they speak, note the size of their pupils.
Then, change the subject matter to include something that they don’t like – a hot button of sorts. Then as they begin to speak, observe what happens to their pupil dilation as they internalize their feelings while speaking.
Now that you know why you are picking up on this signal, you can watch more closely to determine which emotion your customer is experiencing.
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